A Bit of Fantabulous Math Chaos

Ring It was always a favorite game in my Kindergarten space. The Kinders and I would play it all day if we could. It’s a game that can be used with those who are beginning math thinkers and doers, as well as the more advanced thinkers and doers. (Btw, it’s now called Tap A Bell’o. Why? I do not know.)

I bought the game for my pre-K-ers this year, and I’m happy to report it is beloved by them as well! Playing together was a joyful, fascinating learning experiment for me and my pre-K-ers.

After paying close attention to how the kiddos play the game, I usually explain and add rules. It all helps to keep the fun, reduce unnecessary chaos, and increase math and social emotional learning.

These two rules help with the smooth running of the game:
***If you ring it and there is no match, you must sit on your hands for one round. Or, if you’re like one sweet soul today who said, “I can’t sit on my hands, Ms. James. It makes them hurt.” just put them under the table on your lap.
***We begin each round of the game by whispering, “3, 2, 1 flip.”

These two allow for greater math thinking and doing, and I introduce them after we play for a bit.
***Dot cards (I enhanced the deck with them) can be matched to each other or to a number.
***You can add cards to make matches. For instance, 4 dots and the number one can be added together and form a match for 5.

One of our first games, my director joined in the fun. She marveled at the whispered “3-2-1 flip” and then laughed out loud as the bell was rung at least 5 times in quick succession after the first flip. As I place my hand over the bell, she laughed and said, “Phew, Ring It is a little chaotic in preK.” I laughed, too, and replied “Oh yeah! We’re still learning. This is only our second time playing.” She nodded in understanding and continued to play the game with us. The kids loved that she joined us.

Bell ringing, patience, and expedient announcements of your match were areas of learning, and with practice we all got better!

The need for me to cover the bell so that the ringer could think and claim their match decreased dramatically. In moments of passion it sometimes returned, but it was much better. In fact the mighty mathematicians began to develop their own rules to help with one of the difficulties. When we began, there was arguing about who rang the bell first. But, as we continued to play, they young mathematicians started to split the cards, explaining, “Since we both rang, it’s only fair that we both get one of the cards.”

As I watched them play, I noticed one young mathematician always seem to ring the bell first. I was amazed. Then, I realized she flipped her card last, and instantly rang the bell after her flip. Further observation showed she rang before she had a match. She wanted to win and had developed a way to do so. She didn’t understand what she was doing was against the rules. It took her several times to internalize the idea that she shouldn’t just ring as fast as should could, but instead wait until she saw a match. I chuckled sharing it with her mother because I was impressed that she had figured out a way to be successful. Her mother apologized thinking her daughter was cheating. I explained she wasn’t cheating, she was problem solving, searching for possible ways to score matches.

As I mentioned, as the game playing progressed, I introduced the dot cards, and then the idea of adding cards to get a sum that matched another card on the table. In Kindergarten I set it as a goal. For instance, “Today we are playing for 8.” The only way you could gather cards was if there were 8’s to match, or ways to make 8 with addition or subtraction. They could add, subtract, or add and subtract. It was amazing! With my pre-Kers I instead offered addition while playing as a matching option

Once, as they started to whisper “3-2-1 flip.” I said, “Wait there’s another match.” I let them think for quite some time. Finally I gathered the cards saying “4 and 1 more is 5.” I played that strategy a few more times, and then they began using it on their own. Sometimes there was a match and they didn’t find it, sometimes there was a match and they found it, and sometimes they tried all the combinations and discovered there were no matches. I enjoyed sitting back and pausing as they thought and “talked math” with one another.

Math talk and problem solving.

Once one of the marvelous mathematicians who was playing “as a helper” figured out the match. Instead of simply using her big, beautiful brain to give her friend the answer she put the numbers on her fingers, then turned to her friend and said, “Here, count my fingers.”

Addition using our fingers.

Some of the mathematicians thrived in the face-paced, mildly chaotic world of Ring It. Others took a while to warm up to it. I was pleased to see that some of the mathematicians would win a match and then announce “I won this for you, Phoebe.” as they handed the match with a smile to a friend who had less matches. The gesture was always welcomed with a “Gee, thanks.” Some would regularly ask to play with partners so they could help each other. They always came up with new ways to partner — for instance: take turns, one ring and call, one pick up the match, or just be a team. I was ok with it all — they were learning math and using math strategies, they were growing as thinkers, problem solvers, and community members, they were engaged, and they were having fun. I learned so much about them as we played together, and just like them, I had a blast.

the intense focus of preK mathematicians

Power Skills Fuel Pre-K Math Thinking and Doing

I suspect you’ve heard of soft skills. But, have you read about rebranding them from soft skills to power skills? I first saw it in the Harvard Business Review: Why Leaders Need Power Skills, April 15, 2026. Subsequently, I did some reading and found it mentioned by Josh Bersin in “Let’s Stop Talking About Soft Skills: They’re Power Skills,” November 16, 2020, and by Rachel Wells in “Soft Skills vs Power Skills: Is There a Difference,” Forbes, Feb 19, 2024.

Some of the power skills mentioned in the articles are:

courage
tenacity
optimism
curiosity
creativity
empathy
flexibility
collaboration and teamwork
effective communication
problem-solving
critical thinking
innovation
the ability to gain and use data info
listening

trust

Josh suggests the rebrand as power skills is appropriate because “in reality, they are the skills that give you real ‘power’ at work.” I would add that the same is true for teachers and students who use them in the classroom.

Give the list another look. Can you see them as habits and positions of power and learning? How so? Look for them in the classroom. Who’s using the skills? When are they using them? How are they using them? When you notice them, look more deeply. What do you notice? What do you think? What do you wonder?

Here are some of my thoughts.

The choice to be courageous helps us be brave, try new things, share ideas, and listen.

Tenacity and optimism help us stick to a task and believe it is indeed true that “I can do hard things every single day.”

Curiosity drives us to explore what we do not yet know, to be motivated by wonder and awe, and to approach things from unique perspectives. It requires flexibility and increases joy.

Empathy encourages us to listen, to give grace, to allow others (and ourselves) to try, use their big beautiful brains, fail, learn, and succeed. Empathy helps us understand more deeply.

Communication is essential for sharing ideas, collaborating, and working together as a team. All these things enhance our abilities to problem-solve, think critically, and innovate.

With this in mind, I want to highlight and modify, including teachers and students (both leaders in our learning journey), what Ruth wrote in her HBR article. When teachers and students use their power skills, everyone feels trusted, motivated, and included, and learning is supported and enhanced. 

Here are some times my pre-K-ers and I used power skills to make our math moments fascinating, fun, and filled with deep mathematical thinking. What power skills do you notice? How is it impacting the learners and learning?

One of the mighty mathematicians was enamored of her sibling’s ability to do multiplication. She told me about the math she experienced and said she wanted to do it, too. We talked about multiplication. I told her multiplication is kind of like adding groups. For instance, 3×3 tells you that you have three groups of 3. We used our fingers to figure out how many things are in 3 groups of three.

She wanted to do more, so we grabbed some pegs and represented the abstract concept of multiplication thinking and work in a very concrete way — on the pegboard. Another mighty mathematician asked if she could play, too. They talked, counted and created and solved multiplication problems together.

These mathematicians explored and translated dominos from the pips on each side of the domino to a ten frame.

They kept their dominoes secret from one another and guessed what they looked like from the information on the 10 frames. They enjoyed the secrecy and the mathematical conversations. Often their ideas required further communication. For instance, is it a 10-frame if it doesn’t have 10 pegs in it? What makes you say that? One mathematician created a 1-frame and a 4-frame to share with her fellow mathematicians.

The mathematicians wondered and speculated what to do when their domino had more than 10 dots in all, or had more than 5 dots on either side. Would it be ok to add it to the second row of the 10-frame? Could they just let it sit outside their 10-frame? Lots of experimentation and conversation ensued.

Finally, they worked independently to figure out how many there were in all. They shared their answers and their thinking, celebrated if they both got the same (and accurate) answer, and discussed if their answers were not the same. Often, they used different strategies to calculate the total, and as they shared their strategies, they discovered even more ways to solve the problem.

As we cleaned up for lunch, several mathematicians inquired, “When are we doing that again, Ms. James? … Yeah, when are we doing that again?”

Soon, mighty and powerful ones, soon!